Gender-Bending: Menswear
When I was a teenager, the one style I wanted to emulate most was faux androgeny. I wanted to rock the menswear look: straight-leg slacks and starched dress shirts, spiked short hair, a sexy, almost masculine swagger. With double D’s and a short stature, however, I chalked it up as a never-to-be-realized dream. I have [...]
Read moreIn Another’s Nest: Link Love
Jaka Merriman, a friend and valued commenter, takes us through the “saga” of her hair color, and ends up with a new perspective on self-love.
Chelsea Rae of Pink Rock Candy also saw the Crystal Renn/Jaquelyn Jablonski photoshoot – but she saw it surrounded by hate-mongering comments towards women’s bodies. Here’s her take on the whole [...]
Fashion Mythbusting: “But I’m SUPPOSED to like it!”
Today, on my way home from picking up bananas and a latte (don’t ask me about the health-related inequalities there), I saw a woman cross my Chicago street wearing slightly sheened polyester leggings (black, but looked a touch blue because of the workout-worthy sheen), a North Face vest, and a long sleeve t-shirt with patent [...]
Read moreStyle in Season: Sweater Dresses
First thing’s first: sweater dresses don’t have to be frumpy. It may take a little extra cash – or waiting for the right sale – but a well-made, well-fitted sweater dress can remain a winter staple for years. Jen bought one a year ago, and happily pulled it out of her closet last week for [...]
Read moreStyle in Season: Not Your Average Sweater
Though we love the classics – everyone should own a basic cardigan and a crewneck sweater – we also think that it’s possible to be as uniquely fashionable in winter as it is in summer. One of the easiest ways is to take whatever basic bottoms you own – jeans, slacks, skirts – and pair [...]
Read moreBody Type? What Body Type?
Sometimes, we just don’t care about our figures.
You heard us right: sometimes we don’t care that we’re hourglass figures. Sometimes we feel like straight up and down girls, or pear-shaped, or apples. Occasionally, we may even want to look…triangular.
Because that’s what clothes are supposed to do, right?
A good article of clothing not only accentuates your [...]
Fashion Faux Pas: “Cute”
Definition (Merriam-Webster): attractive or pretty, especially in a childish, youthful, or delicate way.
Fashion Faux Pas: “Cute” is for puppies and infants, not socially-accepted, beautiful women. No supermodel has ever been cute unless it’s in a kitschy, odd way…in fashion, ”cute” is the kiss of death.
…But Maybe It Ain’t All Bad: The c-word is long-lasting: you can be cute [...]
Modesty in Summertime: The Ol’ Cleavage
This post was inspired by an anonymous suggester who left us a note in our Skribit suggestion box on the left side of the screen. If you’d like to suggest a topic, have a question, or even a comment, click the “We should cover…” question at the top of the box, and enter your comment [...]
Read moreBoyception: How Our Partners View Our Style
Hi. This is Elle. Yesterday, my boyfriend called me a “diva”.
A DIVA, ladies. Don’t get me wrong, I know I have (ahem) assets, but a diva, I am not. I do not have any large hats with big bows on them. I do not own a dress made from sequins. I do not require 75 [...]
Flickr’D!: Our first winner, Di!
Every month or so (sometimes more, sometimes less) we’ll pull from our Flickr Group and highlight an honorary Demoiselle with a token of our affection, as well as our collective awe in the face of her beauty, grace, confidence and style.
Our first honorary Demoiselle is Diana.
Jennifer Nicole says: How do you do it, girl? I’ve known [...]









