Trying the Trends You Fear
Here at The Demoiselles, we discuss almost every trend that comes across the board. By doing this, I’ve come to realize I have this very anti-hipster attitude when it comes to style. I’m not into the shade sunglasses (they have them at Topshop and they’re overpriced + overrated if you ask me). I think it’s funny that kids who weren’t technically AROUND for the 80′s are embracing giant Hypercolor tees, skinny jeans and funky colored high tops. What’s next? Crimped hair, one earring and jazzercise??
I kid, mostly; however, I do find it ironic that kids who weren’t around to experience these fads have embraced them as fashion trends. What’s more, they’ve embraced all the fads together to assemble outfits that say: “I look cool by not looking cool”. In trying to look cool by putting together the tackiest outfit possible, these kids have embraced irony and seriously put me off one or two trends that might actually look great on me.
To remedy my fear of all things ironically hipster, Elle secretly sent me a little package of two of the trends I’ve refused to embrace. The two things I vowed I’d never buy came wrapped in a pink box with a bow… She sent a pair of skinny jeans, and a pair of leggings.
My aversion to skinny jeans is this: I hate the idea of tapered pants. I think jeans should be straight or bootcut from the knee down. I don’t mind slim cuts; I might consider cigarette pants. In my opinion, though, the tapered look should be left in the 80′s/early 90′s. I’ve got a whole list of complaints about skinny jeans. For example, they’re revealing – every bump and lump on your legs is ultimately apparent. They give you flat hipster-ass. They’re trendy. UGH!
My aversion to leggings stems from the whole “let’s wear these as a substitute for pants” movement. Ladies, leggings are not an appropriate substitute for pants. If you have to tug down your shirt when you walk around to keep from flashing someone, you need to rethink either the length of your top or the style of your bottom. I also sort of feel like if you’re going to wear tights – why not buy them with the feet on. Leggings also look like workout gear. Who wants to look like they should be biking the Tour de France in their little spandex pants all day?
You see my dilemmas?
Elle recognized my aversion to trends that seemed ironically hipster and encouraged me to try them anyhow – with great results. Skinny jeans?? At first I felt like an impostor in them, but after wearing them around for a day, I love them! I have been so anti-tucking-pants-into-boots; I realize it was because I never had the right pair of jeans. They feel natural tucked into my blowfish boots, and they look fab with a wedge heel. And leggings? Though I still advise against wearing them as pants, I love the look they offer when paired with skirts or dresses and wedges/flats/sandals. Here’s what I’ve been wearing:
The skinny jeans in question – worn with flats and 2 layered tanks.
The leggings – worn with heels, and a shirt-dress.
So now I need to know – how do YOU wear your leggings or skinny jeans? I want tips, tricks and outfit ideas!
I encourage you to take a second look at those trends you might balk at for whatever reason, and also, when your gal pal says “Try this on”, don’t look at her like she’s lost her mind. It pays to listen to your girl friends when it comes to shopping. Often, they are the ones who realize the trends we resist will ACTUALLY look good on us.




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I’m with you on the 80′s. I lived through them once, I am so not going back. There are a host of trends that, barring gifts in the mail, I’m not about to try. Not gonna wear a scarf with a t shirt, large sunglasses nor anything in shades of neon. I’m sure there are more & there might even be ones I should be wearing, we’ll never know.
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I think kids experimenting with clothes from eras they were never a part of is something that has always been done and always will be done. I remember wearing things that were 60s and 70s- esque when I was younger. And what about the kids who dress like punks? Or hippies?
I also think it’s not entirely true to assume that because they’re wearing clothes from the 80s they think they look uncool. Maybe they like the look. The people in the 80s who were wearing the looks first certainly didn’t think they looked uncool.
Hehe – Ellie, I’m thankful to be entitled to my opinions. The point of this post wasn’t my aversion to hipstergarb, but really, embracing trends I may have avoided because of my opinion.
Also, Brienna – careful there! I do like my black framed glasses which DO compliment my face…..
And Kristy – you hit this nail right on the head!
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I have to agree with Birdie here, Ellie. Being smack-dab in the middle of fad city (Chicago) I see plenty of people who wear things just because they are in style. It’s all about being ~artsy~ while proclaiming that you hate hipsters. They then take their Brooklyn cap with the bill turned upwards, roll up their pant-leg and hop on their thrifted 80s bike. Nothing I see around is original. It’s all typical and sold at Urban Outfitters.
There is a way to take a trend and modify it to be your own style. There is really no need to dress in your grandma’s 80s dress and glasses and call it your own. People don’t look cute like that, they look like their grandma.
Being uncool looking is the new cool. Why else would large, black-framed glasses be “in”?
I don’t know, Brienna, how can you have a site that’s telling women to embrace their style while also saying that some styles are “not okay.” It’s impossible to uncover the people wearing an 80′s dress & glasses because they actually like it and how many are doing it because they’re just following a trend.
In reality, we ALL follow trends. The only clothes out there to buy are ones based off of what was on a catwalk at some point. What sets you apart from someone is not where you buy your clothes but how you wear them, right? And these people are doing exactly what you do — experimenting with what they buy. All new fashion is recycled and all new trends are started by someone who decided to wear something that wasn’t fashionable at that moment.
By putting this down you’re putting down the evolution of fashion.
Birdie took the risk and tried the things she *hated*, realizing she actually liked them. She was rather forward about her distaste for things, but I would encourage people to look at the last couple sentences of the post where she realized she may not be so vehemently against certain trends in the future.
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Kristy,
I understand your point, but at the same time is it really embracing your style or copying another person’s style? (‘Your’ being a general term, of course.) This is extremely apparent when you look at a group of friends all wearing the same thing in different colors or patterns.
And nowhere did I say I was against trends or, as you put it, the evolution of fashion. I know that fashion works in 20-year gaps. I took Fashion Merchandising classes and saw people who were good at being trendy but not quite up to the “trendsetting” level. To me, the recent 80s boom is nothing different than Ed Hardy or Uggs, but that is my personal opinion and I don’t expect anyone to abide by my opinions. Haha.
I am putting nothing down but the people who claim to be fashion forward because they can follow what American Apparel is promoting. And forgive me if I’m wrong, but American Apparel is not promoting what is on the runways at the moment.
Also, I never said that some styles are “not ok.” People are entitled to wear what they please. I just wish that people wore things to make themselves happy and not to fit in with their friends…unless fitting in with their friends really makes them happy. Personally, I would rather save money and stick with pieces that will continue to be wearable when the trends end and can adapt to any new trends. One of my concerns is pairing too many trends together, so I do think of that as well.
My original comment/message does fit into the site because I believe people (not just women) should be themselves and not worry about being a carbon copy of the person standing next to them at some hip party.
And I applaud Birdie for taking a trend and making it her own. That was the point of my original comment.
I started a debate at TD: http://bit.ly/YQ92j
Brienna,
I guess I should have clarified that my response was to both you and Birdie. Obviously I could have been more clear, as I addressed it to you, but I was really making general comments about both your comment and the original post.
And we all have our opinions — especially when it comes to fashion. That’s what makes it great!
-K
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